Feb 08 2022

Wherefore, my beloved brethren, let every man be swift to hear, slow to speak, slow to wrath: For the wrath of man worketh not the righteousness of God.

Every day, more than 6 billion text messages are sent in the United States alone. This form of communication has made it faster and easier to talk with each other than ever before. Unfortunately, this mode of communication also enables us to fire off replies without careful consideration.

This afternoon's verse provides the wisdom we should consider in an age of information explosion. James, who is believed to be Jesus' half-brother, emphasizes that not only should we be slow to speak but also slow to react or become angry. A fast response can lead to a display of character that isn't godly.

When we have conversations, whether by text, email, or social media commentary (as well as in person), we should be quick to listen and slow to speak. Because it's so easy to communicate quickly, it takes extra effort to stop and weigh our words before responding to others.

When we take the time to listen to others, we are demonstrating care and concern for what they are saying. Instead of reacting, we are carefully and deliberately listening to what is being said. This one action can lead to richer conversations, and ultimately more meaningful friendships and better relationships with our family members.

If we are known for listening to others, they will be more likely to share their hearts when they are suffering and turn to us when they are in need of prayer.

Dear God, there are times when I am overwhelmed by the need to communicate with others. I may feel tired, anxious, or frustrated, but I know that I should never be reactive in my responses. Help me become a better listener. Build your character in my life and help me become more aware of the needs of others. In Jesus' name, amen.

Feb 07 2022

And that ye study to be quiet, and to do your own business, and to work with your own hands, as we commanded you; That ye may walk honestly toward them that are without, and that ye may have lack of nothing. :

The late advice columnist Ann Landers once said: "Make someone happy today, mind your own business."

In our social media-driven world, we know more about others than ever before. People share personal photos, political and religious thoughts, life events, triumphs, problems, pet peeves, and all kinds of other revelations. Even if we try to avoid it, we are still made aware of other people's business.

In 1 Thessalonians, Paul encourages the people of Thessalonica (an ancient city in Greece) not to meddle in other people's business. The more we know about our neighbors, the more opportunities we'll have to concern ourselves with their lives and gossip about them.

Paul also instructs the Thessalonians to work with their own hands. Later on, in 2 Thessalonians, we learn that there were idle people who spent their time getting into trouble by interfering in the affairs of others. It's possible that these unproductive actions kept them from fulfilling their responsibilities.

Throughout the Bible, we are reminded to keep our hearts and minds focused on God. With our eyes fixed on Jesus, we imitate His behavior instead of giving in to our sinful nature. This godly choice sets us apart from the rest of the world that craves the latest news whether it's true or not. We can reflect God's character as we genuinely love one another by minding our own business.

God, you know the challenges I encounter every day. When people talk about me, it hurts. Help me to be aware of the things I say so I don't inflict that same hurt on others. Use my words to draw others closer to you. Give me the right words to speak at the right time. In Jesus' name, amen.
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